When we talk about being yourself, it may connote a different understanding if we were to say this to the elderly. The younger generation may however, perceive it differently. Recently, I witnessed how self-confidence is easily robbed in our society on a pre-text that one must listen to the elderly because they are older than us, because they underwent similar situations way before us. Oh, my! It’s not always necessarily true that you have to follow what other tells about yourselves. Here are some of the situations where you should choose to decide for yourselves.

Be yourselves

#1 when the situation gives you long-term happiness

People come people go, but you will always be by yourselves even when nobody is by your side. So, it is very important to gauge the sort of happiness laid in front of your eyes.

#2 if it is for your soul

It’s about you. You are happy not because the choice you did not make. It is okay if it feeds the soul you are in.

Identifying your potential is no way going to harm your self-confidence.

#3 when your choice defines who you are better than your words

Yes! Since when being judged tastes so good?

#4 when it empowers you

Being yourselves is important in identifying a lot of things that lies within you. Identifying your potential is no way going to harm your self-confidence.

#5 when you are not fighting against yourselves in order to please others

Definitely! Choose because you are given the chance. Seize it!

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